15 Sex Toy Jewelry Pieces You Can Wear Everywhere

September 03, 2024

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Yes, sex toys that are blatantly sex toys are fun and all, but sometimes, sex toys that are slightly more discreet can be even sexier. That’s right, we’re talking about sex toy jewelry.

Wearable sex toys range from a low-key pendant necklace that doubles as a vibrator to BDSM-inspired collars, cuffs and nipple clamps. Regardless of the style, you can wear them out to dinner, and no one knows you have a kinky piece of jewelry on.

It’s far more common to see necklaces that double as harnesses than necklaces that double as nipple vibrators, but over time, as sex toy jewelry has become more common, beginner-friendly options are growing increasingly available (and the BDSM options are growing increasingly discreet). Handcuffs are now adorned with beads and metallic chainmail, so you could probably wear them for a night out and no one will know. Leather harnesses are lined with gold details that leave them looking and feeling like jewelry. You can find necklaces with vibrators and metal whips in equal measure.

The best part of all of this is, of course, that these toys masquerade as genuinely chic accessories. Wearable sex toys are fun — and they open the door to new kinds of play. But they’re also cute enough to wear on the regular — and that alone is reason enough to consider them for your collection (and your jewelry box).

A version of this story was published November 2019.

Crave Icon Cuffs
Crave has some new pairs of shockingly wearable cuff bracelets. These ICON cuffs that are more durable for light restraint play that are also quite wearable in public (and no one will know your secret!). Either way, you won’t regret picking a set up for you or your partner.
Crave Icon Cuffs
$79
Crave Vesper
This stunning Crave Vesper necklace conceals a tiny vibrator in plain sight. Wear it anywhere and everywhere, and reveal its true purpose to your loved ones as you see fit.
Crave Vesper
$79
Maze Bra Harness
The Maze Halter Bra Harness would be an incredibly badass purchase, whether or not you ended up using it as intended. The leather choker-based bodice is perfect for wearing on its own—or layering over some of your favorite pieces. With a harness this eye-catching, it’s pretty hard to go wrong.
Maze Halter Bra Harness
$65
Unbound Bangle Handcuff Bracelet
While some of the bracelets-turned restraints on the market are either too dainty or too over-kill, these bangle handcuffs from Unbound are low-key but functional for light flirty play. They are aslso, in bracelet mode, bangles that you wouldn’t mind being seen out and about in.
Unbound Bangle Handcuff Bracelet
$49.00
Maze Hand Bracelet Harness
These trendy bracelets are actually harnesses for your hands. Wear them as statement accessories, or use them as intended — either way, they’re sure to delight.
Maze Hand Bracelet Harness
$40
Desir Metallique Metallic Mesh Collar
This metallic collar is a beginner bondage piece, making it a particularly accessible way into the world of restraints. Whether you wear it over or under your next night-out look, we suspect people will be asking you where you got it — and where they can get one of their own.
Desir Metallique Metallic Mesh Collar
$25
Maze Tassel Choker
This choker doubles as a leash—and triples as a whip. Undoubtedly one of the more eye-catching pieces of sex toy jewelry on the market, this choker is perfect for those who prefer boldness over subtly.
Maze Tassel Choker
$35
Magnifique Waist Chain Jewelry
Clitoris jewelry is on the market—it’s only fair that butts get a little love, too. This waist chain serves no practical purpose, other than highlighting your truly stunning tush.
Wear it on its own, or layer it over your favorite panties—either way, you’re sure to entice whoever’s looking.
Magnifique Waist Chain Jewelry
$40
Lovehoney Tease Me Nipple Clamps
These hoops weren’t designed with your ears in mind. Fasten the clamps around your nipples, and enjoy the added stimulation that will follow every move your partner makes. (Take note, though: Lovehoney warns these clamps aren’t for beginners.)
Lovehoney Tease Me Advanced Nipple Clamps
$12.99
Magnifique Necklace Whip
Statement necklaces are never a bad idea—especially when rendered in sleek silhouettes and crafted from classic materials. The Magnifique Necklace Whip checks all these boxes, all the while doubling as an actual whip.
Magnifique Necklace Whip
$40
Desir Metallique Metallic Mesh Handcuffs
Crafted from metallic mesh, these bangles are a little cozier than your average handcuffs — but they’re equally fun. Wear them as bangles whenever you like, and strap them into their chain as you see fit.
Desir Metallique Metallic Mesh Handcuffs
$25
Harness
This choker/harness combination is an aesthetic masterpiece. The black straps drip with classic BDSM appeal, while the gold accents lend the feel of jewelry to the accessory. Even better? The entire piece is adjustable. So you can detach the harness and wear the choker on its own whenever you like.
Harness
$24
Maze Wide Cuffs
Bijoux Indiscrets’ Maze Wide Cuffs are bold and subtle in equal measure. While the thick silhouette feels commanding, the neutral palette feels discreet. Wear one, or both, or layer them on the same arm. The options for these cuffs abound.
Maze Wide Cuffs
$30
Magnifique Tickler Pendant Chain
Dainty jewelry is endlessly trendy. And this pendant necklace, in particular, offers more than just aesthetic appeal. Doubling as a mini whip, this necklace serves as a beginner-friendly invitation into the world of impact play and BDSM. (And even if never used as intended, this chic accessory would still be a veritably worthwhile purchase.)
Magnifique Tickler Pendant Chain
$35
Orion Cuffs
Maximalists will surely appreciate the opportunity to sport an accessory that’s bold, statement-making and truly out-of-the-box. These blue leather cuffs can stand on their own as show-stopping bangles, or attach to a strap for some next-level play.